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    Our Beginning

     Every human being begins the same way.


    We are conceived. 

    We grow inside another human body. 

    We are sustained, protected, and shaped before we ever open our eyes.


    But while the structure is the same for everyone,

    the environment is not.


    During pregnancy, a developing baby is not separate from the mother’s experience. The womb is not a sealed bubble 

    — it is a shared biological system.


    Whatever the mother’s body has to respond to, 

    the baby responds to as well.

    Stress Is Shared

     When a mother experiences stress — emotional, financial, physical, environmental, or relational — her body releases hormones to deal with it.


    Those hormones do not stop at her bloodstream.

    They pass directly to the developing baby.


    This means the baby is not “imagining” stress.
    The baby is chemically experiencing it.


    Long before language, thought, or memory, the nervous system is learning:


    • How tense the environment is
       
    • How often the body must stay alert
       
    • Whether calm is common or rare
       

    This is not about fault.


    It is about biology.


    More Than Stress

    Other factors also shape early programming:


    • Whether the mother feels supported or alone
       
    • Whether her body is rested or exhausted
       
    • Whether nourishment is consistent or scarce
       
    • Whether there is safety or constant uncertainty
       
    • Whether there is gentleness, touch, and reassurance
       

    Even things like:


    • Voices spoken near the womb
       
    • Music
       
    • Repeated sounds
       
    • Emotional tone
       

    All of this becomes part of the baby’s first understanding of the world.


    Not as thoughts.


    As patterns.


    No Choice, No Consent — Only Adaptation

    For these nine months, we have no control over:


    • The conditions we are grown in
       
    • The stressors present in our environment
       
    • The emotional world of the adults around us
       

    Yet our nervous system adapts anyway.


    It adjusts sensitivity.


    It adjusts alertness.


    It adjusts expectations.


    This is not weakness.


    It is intelligence.


    It is the body doing what bodies have always done:


    Preparing to survive the world it expects to enter.

    Why This Matters

     Many people grow up believing:

    • “I’ve always been anxious”  


    • “I’ve always been on edge”  


    • “I don’t know why I react this way”  


    Often, the answer is simple — and impersonal:

    Your system learned early what kind of world it was entering. 

    Not because anyone failed.


    Not because something went wrong.


    But because adaptation began before memory.


    This means some children arrive carrying far more than others, 

    before they’ve ever had a chance to choose or consent. 


    And then it happens. 


     After months of learning the world through chemistry and rhythm,
    the nervous system is suddenly introduced to it directly.


    And that transition — from total protection to total exposure — is called birth.


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